《大叔的愛》背後的偉大意義

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關鍵字:大叔的愛大叔之愛おっさんずラブ  Ossan’s Love 牧凌太 林遣都  春田創一 田中圭 牧春春牧

我很久沒有看日劇了。
大叔的愛》果然沒有令我失望!一套值 9.5/10的高質日劇,讚!

田中圭(花田創一)的演技太驚人的好!原來全7集內更有不少即興演出和真情流露的眼淚。田中圭無論聲線,眼神,五官面部表情,以致每一吋的身體語言,都控制把握得剛剛到位,超有張力!讚讚讚!(但身材實在太好,與他懶懶的角色好像不太配哈哈 XD。有時間操練嗎?! #謎のいい体 #存在が罪)

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短評一下,這套日劇其實也帶出了一個更偉大的多層次message:愛情是不分性別、年齡、階級、種族、過去背景的。愛情的力量,可以把社會既有的規範一一跨越打破!💪 社會的眼光和家庭的期望等也可以努力克服。

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  • 性別:整個營業部也跨越了性別界線 XD 這個不多談了哈哈。
  • 階級:部長與春田的上司下屬關係,牧與前度
  • 年齡:部長夫人蝶子 & 麻呂  MARO
  • 種族:最後一集荒井千鶴與外籍男友
  • 過去:蝶子就算明知部長已經變心,還是一心一意不問回報的支持他
  • 背景:瀨川舞香與Wonderful 居酒屋店長 XD

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但還是有些謎團我是想不清楚:

– Ep1: 為什麼阿牧在一開始需要參加男女聯誼活動?
– Ep7:
大家覺得葉子在最後還是喜歡部長嗎?

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感恩忘記忘傘

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今天香港三號風球,各區也下著傾盤大雨。
(其實風球也是香港一大特色;香港般的狂風大雨在美國和成都是很罕見的)

我是傻人,今天下班卻偏偏忘了從辦公室把傘拿走。
(今早回到公司後還很聰明地把傘打開吹乾)

今天下班剛巧與不太熟的同事同路去地鐵,已經很累,不想social。我還望一望手袋,有沒有藉口可以說漏了什麼要回公司拿?沒有呀(當時卻想不到我真的遺留了傘子)

因為忘傘,我與同事由東涌站到南昌站排排坐,也不錯的catch up了一下工作以外的事情。也不是太難受。

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回到大圍,大大的雨點滴滴答答的打在小巴車身上。
我已經做好準備,下車後一定會變落湯雞。

「轉彎有落!」居然車上還有另外2人跟我一齊下車。
一個是靚仔,正!可以同靚仔share傘。誰知道他走了反方向=_=
另一個是女仔。
我立刻追上前:「你可唔可以遮埋我呀?」
「可以呀!你今日都唔戴遮!?」
「係呀哈哈漏咗係公司。你係咪住xx花園?」
她笑說加點無奈:「我同你住同一座架!」

(轉返廣東話先)
真係無比尷尬哈哈。因為我完全唔認得佢。
不過好多謝佢,由於我地住同一座,我地真係完全同路,
我都唔需要做落湯雞了!

我真係好lucky呀!感恩!

GTD: Google Keep + Google Calendar

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After capturing all my raw thoughts by boogie board or memory palace / mind palace (see earlier post on “The GTD Capture Tools: Memory Palace, Boogie Board”) , the next step in the GTD system (“Getting Things Done” by David Allen) is to clarify the stuff into meaningful categories. 

Here comes Google Keep and Google Calendar. (Evernote should be better but too bad my office blocks the software!! urgh).

Google Calendar – time-sensitive items ONLY! 

  • any time-specific action (e.g. time to renew my monthly MTR pass)
  • any time-specific appointment (e.g. meetings, lunches, dinners, seminars)
  • any anniversaries or holidays

Google Keep – everything else! 

Once I have written down a raw thought, I would then transform it into (1) actionable step + (2) label them accordingly in Google Keep. It could be personal, work-related, basically anything that you think you should bear in mind.

Actionable step should be specific and easy to understand, e.g. “To discuss with my boss on xyz deal”,  “to put these coins into my piggy bank”, “to read these FB saved links by today.”, “to dye my hair”.

For my tailor-made labels, they are:

  • To Contact – these are “Next Action”. Need to execute.
  • To Do  – these are “Next Action”. Need to execute.
  • Pending – these are the stuff I am waiting for other replies. Can only action when someone else responded / completed it for me. I can check the list regularly and follow up when ineeded.
  • Someday / later – not urgent but good to remind myself from time to time. say, Visit Guangzhou K11.
  • Reference – some links and notes. They are NOT actions.
  • !QUICK – anything can be done in 5 seconds but I couldn’t do it now (e.g. to shred a paper in my handbag once arrived office..)
  • !TODAY – it is like an urgent category, must look into these by today.
  • errands 
  • General – some general reminders in daily life, say Read HKET every day.
  • #MT – some MT related tasks.
  • #Wedding – this is project specific.
  • #Boss – this is for my boss -related tasks.

The GTD Capture Tools: Memory Palace, Boogie Board

The very first step of “Getting Things Done” (GTD by David Allen) is to capture what has our attention and get the stuff all out of our mind (externalisation of my RAM).

To make sure we can keep a habit of keeping nothing in our mind, we need to have a trusted system / collection tools in place.

I have minimised the number of my collection zone into a few only, and I make sure I empty them regularly. They are my boogie board (電子板) and my mind palace / memory palace. They have become part of my lifestyle in order to capture any valuable thoughts at anytime! I become less overwhelmed and anxious when I can always offload my ideas to a safe place.

I like my boogie board because it is erasable with a click. It is light to carry. And I could always take a photo if I need to record them.

I have given up using any kind of post-it note / notebooks. I make sure that I only have one single “taking note” tool in my life so I won’t be wasting time searching for my notes.

I also use memory / mind palace (see post on “Moonwalking with Einstein”) when I have no way to jot down my thoughts physically E.g. during shower!! It works quite well. After the shower, I will immediately write them down / simply do it (if less than 2 minutes).

After boggie board and mind palace, I will then migrate them to Evernote or Google Keep as actionable steps (Step 2 of GTD – Clarify) (e.g. to call Herman to schedule meeting with wedding deco company) with appropriate tagging or labels. (#to contact, #wedding, #pending, #someday/later, #reference)

Ridiculous enough, my company has recently blocked Evernote, so I have switched to Google Keep. I like Evernote more because it shows the exact number of actions in each category. I have a better grasp of the volume I am dealing with in each category of life.