It’s hard to understand – or even imagine – another person’s pain. When we’re not in a physically or emotionally intense state, we underestimate its impact.
The Platinum Rule: treat others as they (not you!) want to be treated – instead of trying to fix a problem, a specific action addresses the damage caused by the problem.
– “Option B”
今日見到一個comment說，香港這個環境會造就好多精神病人。
其實我非常同意。以前係MIT，一年8位學生自殺，包括一位我見過的朋友。「大環境」真的可以推人到精神病的邊緣。有年輕人自殺，很可惜但也明白（但無法想像）有些人會走到再無法做到「自開自解」的地步。
返到香港後，留意到除咗「actually」之外，
香港同事都好鍾意濫用「件事」，「成件事係」。
事情本身可能係一樣死物，一個人，一個合約，但都會用咗「件事係」。
好似以前冇乜人咁用。
完。
好似好耐冇寫blog添。
hello～ 有冇人呀？
好累好累。
沈默是金，沈默是金。
寧願以簡陋換取安寧。
– b
– Tom Hardy, Tom Hardy!! (Sorry Benedict Cumberbatch)
– Dunkirk the movie, watched twice (Tom Hardy! Collins! Farrier!)
– Any movie soundtrack by Hans Zimmer
– 解.綠茶
– GU / UNIQLO
– Paul Smith
– Reading 經濟日報 in the morning
– 大家樂的雞扒炒蛋
– Ice Lemon Tea
– 足夠的私人空間
– meditation at night
– good sleep
– Earning extra money from Carousell
– Earning extra money from 補習 although extremely tiring
– Watching any good movies that worth my time
– checking 28Hse
– 香口膠
– fresh 唇膏
– my Bose Bluetooth speaker
– my Skechers shoes
– hard beds
– Apple products
– Yoga Lin songs
– Chengdu non-work life & Shanghai
– USA
– MiM Girl, Pusheen cat
– 元氣sushi的左口魚和筋子
– Occasionally wechatting with I
– Updating toxicgirl instagram (but giving up)
– AK
– Buying books that seem intellectual
– Black Mirror, Silicon Valley TV shows
– surprisingly zero interest in any Japanese stuff
impromptuz 