when i feel like writing, i can’t really stop.
because of our insatiable ego,
the whole mankind is so not generous when showing appreciation /encouragement
but is so excited to complain/insult/ scold/ badmouth others.
this is exactly what i am.
e.g. i told someone that I really like angelababy,
because I really appreciate her beauty, and how she could make herself so beautiful.
then that person replied me and said “but you are smarter than her, no need to be jealous”
boy, it is not really about jealousy
but it is about some true appreciation.
i may not agree with many things that models are doing, but
if there is one single shining point that I could praise, I should praise.
so wht i wanna say is, if there is one good thing about a person
just tell him or her. even he/she is a thief or evil or bitch.
say, i hate people posting bitchy photos up on facebook
but there is one that I think indeed is pretty good, why not tell her
from what i typed up there,
seems my form of communications is limited to the virtual online world
oh well …
so to be objective/subjective, it really depends on how u balance
between your own ego and your tendency in appreciating others
