茶亭

像水墨畫,人生要留白。

當生活之弦繃得太緊,
應停下來卸下壓抑,來給自己留些空白。
留白,可能才是一天的精髓所在。

偶然的停頓,也是生活的藝術。

靜觀留白處,
有才者韜光養晦,藏鋒避芒
得志者養精蓄銳,修養風范
失意者反省自慰,休養生息。

“處女座狀態好的時候,可以將自己聰明、細膩、能幹、溫情、幽默、有內涵等優良品質完全外展,此時他們顯得如此完美,光芒四射,並且可以表現得非常外向、健 談,容易與人打成一片(這本非他們的性格)。而一旦處女座狀態不好,便會變成另一個人,甚至非常窩囊,一事無成,不過通常此時他們都躲避外在的干擾,所以 讓人感覺有點間歇性自閉症” HOW TRUEEEE ahahha

“要麼便極度冷漠和被動,對誰都不理不睬。其實處女座很清楚自己現在的樣子,但他們無力改變和控制自己的情緒,只能選擇瘋狂地逃避一切。他們想的是:與其很 不自然地面對你,尷尬地和你說些無關痛癢地話,或是因和平時反差太大而被人說成表裡不一,性格怪異,還不如先躲一陣子,等調節好了以後再出來。所以,在與 人交往中,他們只會和不得不交流的人(實在躲不掉)或是完全陌生的人(反正無所謂)交談,而和熟悉的朋友反而疏遠。” so true =…….=””

不喜主動,不善交際(也可以熱情,只是今天熱了,終有一天會冷的),不愛表現,不喜拋頭露面(萬一哪天情緒無法把握狀態不好時,豈不大失臉面) gwa gwa gwa gwa

U rock my world u know u did


iPod recently added– MJ’s and Lady Gaga
after watching so many cool bao youtube videos..
i want to learn to dance like MJ !!!! (?!)
but sadly I am dance-wise handicapped….=.=
modern/MJ/break dance this summer, anyone??
(…….silent)

seriously, after a year of blogging,
Im thinking to standardize my entries into some kind of format
e.g. within 100 words in chinese / english, in point-form ..etc…
if in case one day I’m like MJ, people could quote me easily haha

The Asylum Door

putting on earphones is like wearing your face mask
the latter one, u don’t have to fake any smiles or facial expression
so you could rest your facial muscle a bit
while for earphones, you just mentally isolate urself from the reality
so you could rest your mind a bit

one thing strange is ,
‘studying’ my iTunes Play Count/blog language pattern,
I tend to listen to English songs/write in English in Hong Kong
Cantopop/in cantonese in MIT
and J-pop/in Japanese before leaving for USA
Can someone explain this? anyone?

today went to a MIT Sing-k gathering
10 MITers and 2 from Princeton
they are not Hong Kongers but coming to HK for internships ==
my english is so bad =(( suan la//
and gatherings at this age =
10% making friends + 90% building up connections..sosad

and this summer
there r more than 1 person from MIT who told me
“so you are the one who stay in the reading room (自修室) a lot!!”
oh well..before getting too flattered about it, it also means that
the person also stays in the reading room a lot haha
anyway, glad that I got this always-stay-in-reading-room image
becoz it totally contradicts with my hea底 /hea-pay image I used to have for so long

(boy, you won’t want to know how hard I tried pushing myself going there)

MJ III: Superstardom


Stop me if you think I have written a lil bit too much about him.
jus wanna float my thoughts before they are forever forgotten.

Aaron Kwok described him as 前無古人,後無來者
How true.
One fact has been undeniable,
no one moves like mj.
He redefined the possibility of physical embodiment of music.

we’ve lost an irreplaceable global icon
who bridged nations and races
by his powerful performances and superb talents (dance, singing, composing, acting..)
can’t name any other stars with such a wide scope in terms of influence and popularity.

everyone wants you back,
but once again sad reality reminds us that, even as god-like as MJ,
human is mortal.
even dancers as charming as MJ would be motionless after death. (recycled)


“I was wandering in the rain
Mask of life, feelin insane
Swift and sudden fall from grace
Sunny days seem far away
Here abandoned in my fame
Armageddon of the brain
Happy days will drown the pain
On and on and on it came
And again, and again, and again…
Take my name and just let me be”

Have a nice walk on the moon, MJ.

trilogy ends here.
“See you all in July.”

[後記: recently my blog entries are so blog-like..haha]