Know your BATNA

(bringing the little girl around MIT)
girl: gum你報mit個application essay係寫meh架?
me:一次有如世界末日既經歷
girl:哦!你係米寫你搞個展覽,然後之前個晚打風?
me(shock!):下,點解你會知
girl:我睇過本書裡面好像有講
me:下……

“We intentionally didn’t put friends into the same team…you see, if you screwed up your project in the end, you still have a friend.”

“Learning creative trading strategy is like working for a 3-star michelin restaurant. But before that, you have to learn the mechanics like the EWMA, GARCH model. They are like mcdonalds..but it is the chain restaurants that make an impact in the world.”

“Whenever you see big derivative losses, it’s always Merr1ll Lynch.”

Scarcity Principle

F: “Is starting salary very important?”
H: “Yes it determines the DCF of your rest of your life”
F :”Then how important is ur life DCF?”

A :”I am a bullsh!t person..I get by my life by bullsh!ting. nothing hardcore.”
F :”If this is the case then you are very legendary.”
A :”..Though sometimes I wonder how far this pseudo-hardcore would take me.”

I: “Okay, let’s warm up with some brainteasers.”
F: “Sorry but I am not a brainteaser person.”
I:” Alright it’s fine. let’s move on then.”

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一位14歲的Paul Con 妹妹將會跟她爸爸由香港飛過來Boston,
到MIT Harvard campus tour。
經朋友的朋友隔three degrees的介紹,說這位小妹妹天資聰穎,
拜託我見到她時,要多教她如何準備攻進美國名大學。

(1) 我14歲的時候,都沒有搞清楚harvard cambridge oxford到底在美國或者是在英國。
(2) 現在的家長真的有點過分周到。記得跟另一位家長聊天,他連SAT的mock試題自己也先做一遍,再跟女兒一起背讀生字。
(3) 雖然我琴棋書畫運動無樣精,但幸好我爸媽一直都讓我自由奔放。當下整個大氣候都越來越competitive,大家都望子成龍,作為小朋友越來越艱難。
(4) 所以,如果有一天要做start-up的話,target怪獸家長們絕對profitable。有無人想做我partner? :P

Exponential Luck

金正日男孫Han Sol Kim將入讀波士尼亞的United World College,這位史上第一位北韓UWC pioneer,最近成為了網上最viral的話題之一。跟同學聊聊,原來金正日的三兒子早在十多年前在瑞士接受西方教育,他的後代到外留學亦非第一次。但這次不同的是,UWC辦學宗旨提倡文化尊重包容,支持celebration of difference,sounds like一旦金正日接班人接受了我們的洗禮,這個世界就得救了。大家反應如一,回響節錄:

(1) “Kim’s grandson is in UWC!! this is seriously hilarious! UWC has been making a difference for my life. Hope it will be doing the same on him and so to make a difference on others “~ 來自一位現於big 4 工作的校友。

(2) “Because I had played a significant role in setting up Kim’s enrollment…As a result, I broke my silence.”剛請辭的澳洲校長,亦忍不住要在個人網誌裡自賞一下自己可等勞苦功高。

實話實說,回首當年同校的同輩前輩,可惜,有志全職延續uwc精神的人可真少之極少 (so i especially appreciate my frens who are really making an effort to continue the spirit in their free time!)。其實這個辦學團體是否被overrated了?眼見很多非uwc朋友亦同樣熱衷社會服務,到底這所學校訓練出來的學生是否如mission statement一般與眾不同?於mit的uwc學生gathering,能connect到大家的都是heavily weighted on比較high-level的 multicultural environment 學習經歷,而不是更深層次的世界大同理念。

As an inactive member of the community,我知道I’m in no position to criticize anything。但evaluate一下在這學校兩年對我in terms of intercultural understanding的influence,其實或多或少都與college的生活有點duplicate。例如大學的cultural nights/evenings or anything that promote international xyz ,理應感新奇興奮,卻有已經屢見不鮮的感覺。林林種種的同類活動,預科兩年已以極高intensity經歷過,來到美國,就有如過著反迫歸真的生活。

To be honest,在李寶椿兩年的takeaways的確有很多,但這些specific影響,難道真的可以與金氏偉大改變北韓封閉暴政相提並論?

淡淡交会过 各不留下印

  • Question of the day: What’s on your bucket list?
  • 睡眠時間總會慢慢調整到可以完全follow香港的交易時間。
  • headhunter的建議是,現在這樣的形勢,就算有offer都可以像零八年般隨時被廢掉。所以寒假回去,別忘跟老闆找家居酒屋喝杯sake。
  • 吃飯途中,友人突然認真彈來一句:“其實我很想知道,你是故意這樣low key的嗎?”Well,倒應從何說起?最後只答了句,“反正都要離開這裡了。”
  • 去了我undergrad來第四次的cruise party。唯一的感受是-我真的老了。嗚嗚嗚
  • 何小姐還有一個月就考精算試。完全消失於網絡,唯一方法是透過她妹妹傳話。我這個朋友倒是為了目標奮鬥的extremist。加油啦~

分別奮闘記

(1) Where’s my family genes?!

這個sem在take兩個communication-intensive的class,整個過程都十分painful
但沒有辦法,不讀就不能畢業,已經拖到最後一年才讀。

昨天要做一個5-min的presentation,都被videotaped下來。
其實我自己都沒有看過自己做presentation是怎樣的,好尷尬。
anyway,given that我父我母都是public speaking的佼佼者
就算不太願意去聽feedback,所以就send給他們評價評價:

  • 講得太快,內容太多,要fit all into 5 minutes 有點overwhelming
  • 內容是pitch 3 listed companies in hong kong stock exchange,外國同學不太明白
    (但因為是自由題目,當然recycle我的final project啦,哈哈)
  • 好多“so“ 同fillers,爹爹話要剔下”so“
  • 還算是氣定神閒, clear hand gestures
  • 啊,你們的genes都沒有inherit下來 =_=
(2) Bucket List 
上課時提到bucket list,就是死前一定要做的事情
去看bump of chicken的演唱會一定是其中一個。
闊別三年半,你們終於開演唱會了!請大會一定要抽中我!
*是這樣的,日本的演唱會門票分幾round:
1. 買cd,裡面有code for lucky draw
2. 有人會把抽中的門票到 yahoo.co.jp bid拍賣
3. 一個月後,才公開正式發售,但只會剩下欠佳的位置