好習慣

最近睇書開始一邊睇一邊highlight重點。

以前唔捨得係上面畫，因為總覺得可以re-sell。

但其實highlight返先可以極快速由頭到尾review。

而且我鍾意有顏色，比evernote就敢打返出嚟仲好。

而且again，又係visually show到progress，可以摸淨係知道自己繼續睇落去。

成本highlight曬嘅書，即係一個「完成品」。

壞習慣

本人有一個非常不好嘅壞習慣，就係遲咗起身就會搭taxi返工，每次要200蚊。每一次搭完都覺得好羞恥又後悔，但依然不停repeat。如何準時返工而唔搭的士？

為咗要根治呢個壞習慣，方法如下：

  1. 行去火車站要10分鐘，著返工鞋唔舒服。決定著skechers返工，擺一兩對返工鞋係公司換。
  2. highlight搭火車嘅benefits，因為紅磡火車站可以買華御結，可以食美味嘅飯糰。搭車可以睇書/寫blog。
  3. 係iPhone set咗screen limit, 12:20am – 6:40am 會lock screen。
  4. 晚上12點開始唔玩電話，12點開始睇悶書，拉拉筋，12點半前要訓覺。
  5. 早上7:00am鬧鐘開始響，7:20am最遲起身，7:50am出門。
  6. 返到公司後，係calendar上用紅筆寫上「+200」作為visual evidence of progress。
  7. 月尾做返個結算，其實慳咗幾多錢。
  8. 返到公司後，我會whatsapp比b 講返我冇搭的士，b要講「good b」表示獎勵及監察。
  9. 記住月台上車最佳位置「7-1」之後係「7-3」。
  10. Uninstall taxi app.
  11. 唔好ATM 拎太多cash。冇cash就冇錢搭。
  12. 徹底忘記夾萬嘅密碼。
  13. 新老闆嚟，唔好有「遲到」嘅identity。要同自己講，I am a person who goes to work on time. I am a person who goes to work on time. I am a person who goes to work on time.

其實仲有好多老壞習慣，例如寒背、食太多炸雞、懶得保護皮膚。 但遲到真係帶來嚴重嘅monetary loss，希望2020年可以根治，係根治，連根拔起！

How to Win Friends and Influence People

(Gave up “Poor Economics”…can’t finish the book…moving on…)

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Techniques in Handling People

  1. Don’t criticize, condemn or complain.
  2. Give honest and sincere appreciation.
  3. Arouse in the other person an eager want.

Six ways to make people like you

  1. Become genuinely interested in other people.
  2. Smile.
  3. Remember that a person’s name is to that person the sweetest and most important sound in any language.
  4. Be a good listener. Encourage others to talk about themselves.
  5. Talk in terms of the other person’s interests.
  6. Make the other person feel important – and do it sincerely.

Win people to your way of thinking

  1. The only way to get the best of an argument is to avoid it.
  2. Show respect for the other person’s opinions. Never say, “You’re wrong.”
  3. If you are wrong, admit it quickly and emphatically.
  4. Begin in a friendly way.
  5. Get the other person saying “yes, yes” immediately.
  6. Let the other person do a great deal of the talking.
  7. Let the other person feel that the idea is his or hers.
  8. Try honestly to see things from the other person’s point of view.
  9. Be sympathetic with the other person’s ideas and desires.
  10. Appeal to the nobler motives.
  11. Dramatize your ideas.
  12. Throw down a challenge.

Be a Leader: How to Change People Without Giving Offense or Arousing Resentment

  1. Begin with praise and honest appreciation.
  2. Call attention to people’s mistakes indirectly.
  3. Talk about your own mistakes before criticizing the other person.
  4. Ask questions instead of giving direct orders.
  5. Let the other person save face.
  6. Praise the slightest improvement and praise every improvement. Be “hearty in your approbation and lavish in your praise.”
  7. Give the other person a fine reputation to live up to.
  8. Use encouragement. Make the fault seem easy to correct.
  9. Make the other person happy about doing the thing you suggest.

呆滯無限loop

估唔到呆滯嘅事情不斷發生，今日到達咗頂點，我稱之為「pinnacle of orz」。

好彩琴日玩塔羅牌，佢已經比咗啟示我今日嘅事情將會係「炒車」。
而我問有咩advice嘅時候，出現咗呢隻牌 – 星幣九 Nine of Pentacles。

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位悠閑的婦女在花園里散步，氣質賢淑溫文爾雅的她，垂著的右手下是幾枚放著的金幣，象征著一切物質面的東西。圖中可見她左背上立著一只聽命于她的獵鷹，獵鷹是生活中一切黑暗粗魯東西的象征，表明婦人已經成功地控制住了，不再為沖動和欲望所動。

應該就是「我可以好grace地hold得住」吧。