“because there is such stigma around these feelings, I think it’s important to share.”
難得我身為到一個病advocate，我都聽到好多“唔適合”嘅安慰說話。大家都可以aware下
- “唔好唔開心啦。” 、“你唔好再喊啦下”。當一個人係一個absolute position of despair嘅時候，你點可以講d咁嘅嘢？係好廢同好殘酷。
- “佢仲慘啦”。“至少你唔係。。”其實對於我嚟講係有少少用，因為有d人真係慘我好多。不過again，呢個唔係鬥慘嘅比賽，你已經係人生嘅最低端，同人compare都係冇用嘅。
- “我都試過你d暈呀！”呢句我係最討厭，痴線。我係天生腦異常呀，腦電波有abnormality呀，你點可能知道我d暈係乜嘢？（好彩我依家有條發羊吊video，通常就可以shut people up了）。作為一個invisible disability其實真係好可憐，因為平時你睇落我正正常常，你係唔會get到我嘅真偽。
- “都叫咗你唔好比咁大壓力你自己架啦！”，“你係咪因為夜訓呀？”omg我係一個好hea嘅人，我嘅發作係藥物都控制唔到架。唔係因為我某d嘅行為導致到我嘅不幸呀。而且你唔係醫生呀，如果你可以估到我嘅發作原因，咁人地唔需要去讀醫科啦。
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